Sunday, 13 April 2014

Funeral liturgy

A funeral service for a crematorium, or a cemetery, leading to committal
Introductory notes: This service is penned for a post Christian world and is intended for families who ever mainly culturally Christian or not wholly Christians.


We are gathered together to morn and weep, we are gathered together to rejoice and celebrate. For this is a day for both, it is a day to be in communion with those we love, with our farther who loves us and his son who died so that we will never die.

We are here for [Name of the deceased] to remember them, to mark their leaving and to celebrate that God will rise them to life immortal and the same God will heal our brokenness.


Blessed are those who morn, for they will be comforted. Jesus wept as we weep for Lazarus, he wept for the pain of his loved one and he rose Lazarus to life as he will raise us.
For god is our comfort, he has promised “He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death” or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.’

In this time of pain and hurt let us come together likes chicks to our heavenly mother, let us follow our shepherd though the valley of pain and suffering follow to the promised land where we are freed from death sting.


Prayer of Pain and faithfulness
Based on Job 30

Have I not wept for those in trouble?
Has not my soul grieved for the poor?
Yet when I hoped for good, evil came;
when I looked for light, then came darkness.
The churning inside me never stops;
days of suffering confront me.

In his great power God becomes like clothing to me
He has not forsaken me – though I mourn
He has not forgotten me – though my pain is great
He weeps with me
He weeps for me

My God calls me to his side
For his healing
For my comfort
So his mercy life me up

My loved one has gone one before me
God has walked with them thought the valley of death
Though the desert of sin
And now resides in the city of Gold
God walks with him, even up to dying himself on the cross to raise us all

God be with me while I walk in pain
God be with me in my brokenness
God be with me

The Ministry of the word:


Talk to the faithful

Talk to the doubtful

It is odd for a Christian text to command preacher talk to those who don’t believe in the resurrection but they morn just as we who believe do and they deserve comfort just as we do.


Based on Psalm 34

We give thanks that the Lord is close to the broken-hearted
 and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
The righteous person may have many troubles,
 but the Lord delivers him from them all;
The Lord will rescue his servants;
 No one who takes refuge in him will be condemned.
We give thanks that when we seek the Lord, and he answers us;
That God will delivered us from all my fears.
I am blessed for when this poor person called the Lord heard him;
God stays with us and comfort us through all our troubles.
We our blessed when we find our refuge in his mercy.

We know you walked with N in all their joys and sorrows
Just as you walk with us still
We know that you have taken N to be with you
You’ve taken N beyond the trials and sufferings of this world
You did all this though death and resurrection of your own son
You did all this because you love us
A love never perishes.

We thank you for the joy they brought us
For the happy memories we have of them
We thank you for the love they brought in to our lives.
We praise you our faithful father God
We give thanks Lord for the life of N
It was your abundant love that gives us life
It is your love that will give us life immortal


Response prayer for those who morn

Almighty God
Father of all mercies and giver of all comfort,
Deal graciously with those who morn,
That they may cast every care on you
And know the consolation of your love;
Through Jesus Christ. Amen


We commit into your keeping, O merciful God, the soul of our beloved N.
Receive them into your perfect kingdom, and take us into your arms of mercy.
Take the soul of N into the joy of everlasting peace and let them reside with you.
Take their soul and keep them safe until we see them again on the day of resurrection.
Take from us Lord all our anger or bitterness.
Take from us lord all our hate and vileness.
We beseech thee to do all of this in your power
For your glory and through the blood of your son Jesus Christ

Intro to the Lord’s Prayer:

Death always leaves much unresolved, pain left unexpressed, anger and earthly disputes lie around like snares but what good is any of this? We are dust and to dust we will all return. Let us remember that forgiveness and rebirth is at the heat of the gospel, that love is our fathers command and that Christ lived the perfect life of forgives to forgive all sin and all people. 

Lord’s prayer



Since the earthly life of N has come to an end, we commit their body to the elements.
Earth to earth, ashes to ashes, dust to dust;
In the sure and certain hope of the resurrection to eternal life
In the sure and certain hope of your mercy God
In the sure and certain hoe that you will make them shine with your glory
We commit ourselves to your spirit of forgiveness
In the sure an certain hope you will heal our wounds
In the sure and certain knowledge that you weep and rejoice with us.
Through our saviour Jesus Christ;
To whom be glory for ever and ever.

Prayer for the living

We stand separated from those who have gone to glory before us, until our labours on earth are done.
Lord be with me in my mourning, Lord weep with me and you wept for Lazarus
Lord cry out in despair with me as you cried upon the cross
Lord embrace me as your embraced Thomas when he saw your resurrected glory

When my earthly labour our done lord bring me home Lord
Where I shall be free from the darkness of this world,
Where I shall be freed from the dazzling of this world.
In your house there is no more fear nor struggle.
When I shall pass with you though the valley of death
You will make me whole once more
Your power shall heal the wounds of this life
Like the blind beggar I will receive new site
Through Christ I shall live anew
In the communion of your love
With all who have walked with you and dwell with you
I will follow faithful just as N has gone before me
Just as Christ when before them, to prepare the way
Glory to God for now and forever




God grant the living times and places to morn
God grant the living the spirit of forgiveness and to lay down any anger
To the departed, grant rest, healing and resurrection;
To the world grant, peace lover and healing
And to all the blessing of God,
The Father, the son and the holy Spirit,
Be with us now in our morning
Be with us in our joys
Be with us forever

Let us go now weeping and rejoice
Believing and doubting
Let us go into a hurting world and bring forth Gods mercy
Let us go to live as N would have called us to
As God calls us to
A Christ did and does still
Let us go in communion with each other
All those who suffer or suffered
And in unity and love
Through the power of Christ,
In the company of the Holy Spirit
And to do Gods will.


Saturday, 5 April 2014

Seeking a gospel for the end of the world:

I have just finished watching “finding a friend for the end of the world”; a film where a lonely man finds, by accident, his true love. It also asks what would you do if the end of the world was coming. My answer is easy: I would be singing hymns and giving thanks in Caversham Heights Methodist church. I would not be here seeking to appease God in order that I may be spared but awaiting for him.
Many of you probably don’t even remember the 1950’s remake of world of wars, I doubt fewer felt the call of God when watching it. The film is set during the Martian invasion of earth; it features early on a minister who walks stoically to his death and a woman who runs to a church.

Both made an impact on me; the first was the brave minister who quite literally walked into the valley of death armed with nothing more than Holy Scripture and the amour of faith. To a pacifist, often beaten for this faith, it spoke to me of the victory of faith over all the violence and all the horrors of this world. Here was a true hero, not like the army with its tanks and planes; he had no protection but the guarantee of God.

The women story made an even greater impact; she had once been lost and in her fear run into a church, where her parents had found her. Her faith was less clear then that of the minister but the call of God was just as clear. So when much later the mob had separated her and her earthly protector she was once more in the church. Not for physical protections for the stone and brick offered none against the Martians war machines but for the feeling of safety and love only the father of fathers can offer.

Now the cynic watching this film would say both the minister dies and many who seek the refuge of other churches. Indeed just before the Martians are struck low they destroy a church very near by the women so where is God then? If it where only so simple. God was in the community and the call to be together, he is and was there holding each hand of all who sought him.

I am reminded of a line from another film the inn of the seventh happiness, the missionary is asked if she not frightened and she answers that God will protect her soul not her body. You see if we seek God only in tangible grand miracles we fail to see his glory. It was clear to me then and it still is now that God is there when the coward is made brave by the spirit, or the scared women made safe by his mercy. He was found in the rubble and suffering, he is there for all who turn to him.

So though I am knocked around and chipped and unworthy of him, if the end where to come God has made room in his house for me, he has made a cleft in his heart for me and though my flesh may perish I am assured that my soul is safe within. He has promised when the end of days or just my days come he will be with me and so in his house I pray to be 

Tuesday, 18 February 2014

Ash Sunday prayers of confession and forgivness

Prayers of confession based on Psalm 51
Stf 424 is God forgave my sins in Jesus name

Holy and merciful God we confess to you and to one another
That we have sinned through our own fault
We have sinned against you and others
In thought, and word and deed
In what we have done and failed to do
STF 424 Verse 1
Have mercy on me, O God,
  according to your steadfast love;
according to your abundant mercy
  blot out my transgressions.
Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity,
  and cleanse me from my sin.
STF 424 Verse 1
For I know my transgressions,
  and my sin is ever before me.
Against you, you alone, have I sinned,
  and done what is evil in your sight,
so that you are justified in your sentence
  and blameless when you pass judgement.

Prayer of forgiveness to be read responsively
I have but hope in you
You lord are my only refuge
I freely seek to live the life of forgiveness
I freely seek to live the life of love
I will freely follow the path of Christ your son
I give thanks that is your nature to shine with mercy
I give thank that you are the God of forgiveness
I stand in awe at the cost you bore to pay for my sin
I weep for the pain you bore to pay for my sin
STF 424 refrain

All of this you did so I could come to your holy mountain
All of this so you could call me child
All of this so I can stand saved
STF 424 refrain

You have forgiven me – alleluia
You have cleansed me -  alleluia
You have welcomed me – alleluia

Send me with great alleluia to spread your word 

Prayer to God

Prayers to God from Joel 2:1-17

Blow the trumpet in Zion;
call a solemn assembly;
   gather the people.
Sanctify the congregation;
   assemble the aged;
gather the children,
   even infants

For when people gather in my name I am with them
When forgiveness spring forth I am there
When people see my glory they repent
They become my children
Of them I am proud of them 

Blow the trumpet in Zion;
   sound the alarm on my holy mountain!
Let all the inhabitants of the land tremble,
   for the day of the Lord is coming, it is near—
a day of darkness and gloom,
   a day of clouds and thick darkness!
Like blackness spread upon the mountains

He has descend his holy mountain to reach his people
The Lord our God had walked the mortal life to reach us
He ascended Calvary’s hill to save us
He suffered upon the cross to show us real forgiveness
He died and rose again to call his children home
The son of man did all this so heaven and earth will shine forth his glory

Yet even now, says the Lord,
   return to me with all your heart,
with fasting, with weeping, and with mourning;
   rend your hearts and not your clothing.
Return to the Lord, your God,
   for he is gracious and merciful,
slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love.

If they only we loved one another
If they we’d listen to Gods word
If only we’d gladly accept His holy sprit
If only we had eye to see and ear to hear

Between the vestibule and the altar
   let the priests, the ministers of the Lord, weep.
Let them say, ‘Spare your people, O Lord,

For God is our refuge of old
He is are hope and security
Upon him build your life
For his forgiveness is eternal
He will never forsake us
He will never abandon us
God will never forget to forgive  

He is our salvation 

Ash Sunday Oos

Order of service:

Call to worship: Romans 10: 9-13

If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. 10 For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved. 11 As Scripture says, “Anyone who believes in him will never be put to shame.12 For there is no difference between Jew and Gentile—the same Lord is Lord of all and richly blesses all who call on him, 13 for, “Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.

   Prayers to God

Today we are marking a time of self-reflection and seeking Gods forgiveness but duering this time let us never forget the wonder and glory of God

Hymn: StF 82: How great though art (oh lord my God)

MBW P141: Para 3
MWB P142: Para 4
MWB P142 para 5 (read collectively)4

We hear are marking the decent of God from his holy mount to Calvary’s hill, never forgetting he is the rock upon which all creation relies – let us rejoice that God  love is steadfast and will hold us forever 

Hymn: Stf 645 Will your anchor hold

Prayer of adoration Companion to the lectionary 3: p64

Reading: Matthew 17: 1-9
Reading: Matthew 6 5-15 -19-21

Sermon: Down from the mountain to Calvary

This is the start of a time of penitence- a time when in the word of the 3rd verse we realise how small the debt owed to us and how great the debt we owe to God

Hymn: Stf 423: Forgive our sins as we forgive

MWB: P146 para16
Word to be on the screen in yellow
(before the cross) I have sinned, I have come to repent and give my life back to the lord
(after the cross) I have been forgiven; God has given me life anew
MWB: P147 para17 (a)

Let us leave filled with the grace of the lord, repentant and reformed, knowing not the work of our hands has saved us but the endless grace of God

Hymn: StF 434 rock of ages


Wednesday, 29 January 2014

Length of service

5 hymns at 5 minuets a piece = 20 min

1 sermon = 15 min

1 all age address 7 min

4 prayers - 12 min (that 3 min a prayer)

Lords prayer + Collection  2 min (depending on size)

= 56 minuets

so if you have communion you better do it quick 

Wednesday, 15 January 2014

Naked truth

This blog is based on  Genesis 3 – Verses 3-11: 

I was recently preaching about being children of God

I was sharing the preaching of the word with a worship leader who said, if your troubles by not feeling like a child of God talk to the lay preacher in the congregation

Or today's preacher



What do I know about this – I don’t feel like a child of God I merely preaching about it

I did not pick the topic it was simply there in the chosen readings

I just speak on a given topic. I have no special knowledge or insight

I suddenly felt ashamed

I felt naked

I wanted to hide

So who are we to answer these questions – to not only eat but serve the fruit of knowledge?

In the passage we’ve heard God forbids the eating of the fruit of knowledge
But why?

Well God knew the fruit of knowledge was dangerous – once you know about your place in creation you cannot simple exist within it

The fruit make give you knowledge of good and evil (like God) but does not make you a fit judge

Once you have judged you are good you will judge others as evil

Once you know about the world that separates you from the innocent

Once Adman and Eve had eaten the fruit they were as distant from Eden as an adult is distance to a baby.

Separated not geographically but by knowledge – the knowledge of there dominion, the knowledge of good and evil and the knowledge that they were not innocent.

So is this the answer to reject knowledge?

To be a Christ said like little children

Well no of course not

The fruit has been eaten – the great fall has been endured

We are no longer innocents, frolicking in the Garden of Eden

So what can we do?

We could hide like Adman and eve but what good will we do?

People will seek us out, they will find us. Preacher our pretty easy to spot

We could answer with the theological answers that come almost off the shelf 

Though we would simply be hiding our nakedness because we were ashamed of it

We would simply be separating ourselves once more – leaving the asker to wonder alone

Or we could like Adman and Eve and answer honestly, come what may

If we do not know then we do not know

We should be unashamed of our intellectual nakedness

If we are troubled by something then let us be troubled

If we are puzzled then we are puzzled

If we do not accept the store brought theology, why will the seeker accept are repetitions of it?

No we must accept that though we eat the fruit we are not equal with God

We are intellectually and emotionally naked and only he can cloth us

We seek absolutes and reassurance – when absolutes bring only temporary reassurance  

We are merely people called by God

We do not know Gods meaning or purpose

 Only God can provide that

We are allowed to wonder and search and doubt and not know

We are called to be honest to people, so they may know what truth looks like

we are simply asked to be tellers of truth

Rejoice in our nakedness for this is God work